How We’re different

Why Choose Us?

There are lots of online dating sites available. People create profiles with different intentions because they want different things. They need different things. They desire and have different fantasies. Some people are serious about finding a long-term relationship and some are serious about finding someone for something more casual. Many people have baggage from previous relationships that makes them afraid of commitment. That doesn't make them bad people. We're different in that our goal is to have a high level of tolerance for different people and their needs while at the same time encouraging people to be honest in order to reduce the one thing that plagues every dating site; deception.

One of the great things about having a more diverse community is that we can learn from each other and blend and balance positives and negatives. For example: The most positive thing about ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) relationships is the honesty. Without this honesty people tend to still go after what they need, even if it makes them a cheater. And let's be honest. There are also people for them to cheat with that don't care they're cheating because they both provide something that is mutually beneficial. The more that everyone can be honest the more that people who are incompatible with cheating can avoid having to deal with that deception. So instead of forcing it and other life choices that may be undesirable to others, to hide (similar to black market goods and services), the more everyone can operate within their own lanes and find each other without deception getting in the way.